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OPINION: Teaching Students Discipline Without Fear

OPINION: Teaching Students Discipline Without Fear

By Levente Orbán
15/10/2025

When the Fijian Teachers Association suggests reintroducing corporal punishment (i.e. using leather belts) as a means of discipline in schools, it raises urgent questions about how to foster sustainable self-regulation in children.

From an human origins and health‑psychology perspective, discipline driven by fear and threat (physical punishment, intimidation) is likely counterproductive in the long run. In contrast, approaching behaviour change through curiosity, internal motivation, and scaffolded self‑control aligns more with how human cognition and social behaviour evolved.

Why fear and punishment undermine learning

1. Threat triggers primitive defense systems

When a child is struck or punished harshly, the brain often interprets it as danger. The amygdala and associated alarm circuits become active, which can impair prefrontal control, executive function, memory integration, and open exploration. This means that instead of reflecting or learning, the child is more likely to shift into fight/flight/freeze mode. (In the cited article, the psychologist notes: “when a child is being struck, their brain translates it as danger.”)

2. Erosion of trust, intrinsic motivation, and psychological safety

Repeated punishment can foster mistrust and resentment, reduce willingness to ask questions or make mistakes, and drive covert defiance. The article points out that “repeated beating turns a child to mistrust.” This undermines the psychological safety needed for real learning, where one must risk errors to grow.

3. Short-term compliance vs. long-term change

Punishment may produce immediate suppression of undesirable behaviour, but it often fails to teach alternatives, and the compliance is fragile — it depends on continued threat. Over time, children may learn to hide misbehaviour or resist in other ways. The pattern is often reactive and brittle, not reflective and resilient.

Thus, the appeal of corporal punishment is understandable in contexts of frustration and lack of resources — but from an evolutionary and psychological lens, it carries strong risks and likely negative returns.

What works better: curiosity, internal motivation, and scaffolded self‑discipline

Here are some strategies aligned with how humans typically learn and self-regulate with humility: outcomes depend on context, culture, support, resources).

1. Elicit curiosity rather than instil fear

• Use questions, puzzles, and gentle prompts: “What do you think might happen if …?”

• Frame mistakes as informative (“Let’s see where this went off track”) rather than shameful

• Scaffold incremental challenges so the child is just on the cusp of success (“zone of proximal adjustment”) Curiosity engages dopamine systems and promotes exploration, which is more sustainable than compliance via threat.

2. Support metacognitive reflection

• After an action (positive or misstep), guide the student to reflect: What did I intend? What happened? What might I do differently next time?

• Encourage the habit of self-questioning (“Am I focusing? Am I rushing? What’s distracting me?”) Over time, the child internalises the monitoring and adjustment process.

3. Positive reinforcement, specifically targeted

• Acknowledge not just outcomes but process (persistence, noticing errors, incremental improvement)

• Use immediate, specific, credible feedback

• Avoid blanket praise (e.g. “You’re so smart”) which can foster fixed-mindset traps Reinforcement helps stabilise desired habits without turning into threats or bribes.

4. Modelling and social norms

• Teachers and caregivers must themselves show self-control, curiosity, calm problem-solving

• Use stories, peer examples, group norms to reinforce how disciplined, thoughtful behavior is respected

5. Gradual goal setting and autonomy

• Let students set (with guidance) small behavior or learning goals

• Give them choice and agency — this fosters “ownership” rather than compliance

• Build self-regulation muscles: delay, planning, attention control, emotional regulation

6. Repair and relationship emphasis after conflict

• If misbehaviour occurs, prioritise repairing the relationship, restoring trust

• Use “calm-down” or “time-in” techniques rather than punitive separation

• After calmness, revisit the situation openly and collaboratively

7. Capacity-building for teachers and caregivers

• Training in therapeutic, developmental approaches

• Ongoing support, peer reflection, supervision

• Systems-level policies that reduce overburden, so discipline is not the only recourse

Caveat: The role of reasonable limits

One must not swing to the opposite extreme of permissiveness. Structure, predictable boundaries, and consistent expectations are essential for safety and collective well-being. Evolutionarily, human children expect frameworks and guidance. The key is how limits are enforced — with predictability, fairness, transparency, and respect — not through threat, shame, or physical force.

When consequences are necessary, they should be logical, restorative, and characterised by fairness, clarity, and opportunities for repair — not blind retaliation.

Reintroducing corporal punishment in schools may appear tempting as a quick fix to perceived discipline breakdowns. However, from a human origins and health psychology vantage, it risks undermining the very capacities — trust, curiosity, self-regulation, willingness to risk error — that support deep learning and healthy development.

Instead, fostering environments that activate curiosity, scaffold internal self‑control, emphasise relationships, and prioritise repair over retaliation offers more sustainable, humane, and effective paths to discipline. Policies and training should reflect these understandings, rather than revert to fear-based control.

Orbán L. L. | PhD, PDF, BAA, IEEE, IAAP, APA

Lecturer in Psychology School of Law and Social Sciences

The University of the South Pacific CELT 205, Laucala Campus, Private Mail Bag Suva, Fiji

Tel: (+679) 924 3957 Email: levente.orban@usp.ac.fj | Web: https://www.usp.ac.fj/

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